Father's Day Australia
Father’s Day is a national celebration of fatherhood. It's a day to honour our dads, to reflect on what it means to be a father, and acknowledge the important role fathers of all kinds have in the lives of their children. But how did Father's Day first start and how has Father’s Day changed over the years?
The History of Father's Day
A day to honour father's has traditionally been celebrated on March 19 in Catholic countries of Europe since the Middle Ages. The Feast Day of Saint Joseph is a solemnity to honour Joseph as the father of baby Jesus and his example of ideal fatherhood. The Catholic Church supported celebrations of fatherhood during a customary day as early as the 14th century. These traditions were brought to America by Spanish and Portuguese immigrants.
The modern Father’s Day as we know it began in the USA in 1908. A tragic coal mining accident in West Virginia the year before had killed 361 men. A memorial service was held to remember them as fathers and husbands, and acknowledge the 1,000 children who were left fatherless. That same year, the newly established Mother’s Day was gaining popularity, and others thought fathers deserved the same acknowledgement. Sonora Smart Dodd began campaigning for the creation of a day to equally honour men.
Sonora Smart Dodd was one of six children who were raised by their single father and Civil War veteran, William Jackson Smart, after her mother died in childbirth. Having been lovingly raised by her father, she wanted men to be equally acknowledged for their parental love and affection.
Sonora Smart Dodd’s first Father’s Day event was held on June 19, 1910 at the YMCA in her hometown of Spokane, Washington with church services and celebrations. Father’s Day was surprisingly slow to take off and it was not popularly observed for many years. It wasn’t until 1966 that President Lyndon B. Johnson designated the third Sunday in June as Father's Day and issued the first presidential proclamation honouring fathers.
The History of Father’s Day In Australia
These days, Father’s Day in Australia is celebrated on the first Sunday of September, although this has not always been the case. A collection of articles from Australian newspapers throughout the 1900s shows that official recognition of the day was slow to come, and most Australians didn't even know it was an event for several decades. Men, in particular, seemed reluctant to celebrate Father's Day until the 1960s.
When did Fathers Day start in Australia?
The earliest celebrations of Father’s Day in Australia were held in June alongside the newly established American holiday. As in the USA, Fathers were honoured at church services. In Australia, however, Father’s Day appears to have been greeted with mixed opinions. This collection of newspaper articles show just how much Father's Day has changed over the years.
Many of the early newspaper editorials suggest the day was seen as somewhat frivolous and unnecessary. A Sydney newspaper dated Sunday 21st May 1911 was less than flattering about the role of fathers:
'Mother's Day' was voted a success last Sunday, and the question now arises what about a day for father? The white carnation was chosen as the emblem for mother—white for purity, form for beauty fragrance for love, and growth for charity.
A cynical lady correspondent suggests we should have the choice of three flowers emblematic of father—the scarlet geranium, because it resembles the bloom of his nose; the cornflower, to match the hue of his language when his liver is bad; or the mignonette, in sweet remembrance of his Saturday night breath.
She adds that September should be the month in which to hail him king, for, under the Southern Cross, it is in that month Dad's fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.
We pass no opinion; all months are the same to us. We live the Simple Life.
The humour caught on and the same paper published this satirical Father’s Day verse the following week:
What flowers now can I suggest
For father dear? Something to place upon his breast
Just once a year.
No pallid pure carnation white,
Antithesis of wicked night,
But something that depicts 'orlright'
Something to represent the nose
Of father dear—
A red geranium or a rose
A poppy or a waratah,
Shining like some red baleful star,
To represent the conk of Pa —
And — beer!
A cornflower for the 'langwitch” blue
Something of brilliant purple hue—
Emblem of sentences that flow
From Pop when he is “on the go,”
And run like some great river's flow
A little sprig of mignonette
Within his Sunday coat to set
To drown the fumes of ancient “meth,”
And “pongelo” and “sudden death,”
That linger on his morning breath,
Too long has mother had the floor
Whilst still they shove behind the door
So, what's wrong with a Father's Day?
What's wrong with it, I ask you, pray?
For Dad, let's shout “Hip hip, hooray!
So once a year in our lapel
A red rose for that infidel,
Who toils to find, our board and bed,
A roof to cover o'er our head,
And after all, let it he said,
HOLDS PREMIER PLACE!
This dismissive humour continued throughout the 1910s with Father's Day continuing to be seen as something of a new American fashion. Our great-grandfathers, and the fathers of early twentieth century Australia, seemed less than excited about a day spent eating chocolate and being made a fuss of.
In 1913, Adelaide's The Journal and Brisbane’s The Telegraph seemed to agree that Father’s Day in Australia was unnecessary, and quoted the New York Post claiming it only showed how far a father’s status had declined in the modern era. “Until our own era, his supremacy was taken as a matter of course… the head of a household needed no rose in his buttonhole to tell him that he was what he was… surely his spirit is not yet so broken as to make him welcome attentions more suited to the hospital than the counting room.”
In 1917, Australians still didn't seem inclined to want to put aside a day to celebrate fatherhood. Historical newspaper editorials and classified ads all show Father's Day had a very slow start in Australia.
It wasn't until 1919 that notices for Father's Day church services began to appear in Sydney newspapers. At this stage, Australia was still undecided on a date for Father’s Day. The few churches that seemed to be offering Father’s Day services in Australia were following America’s date of a Sunday in June for the occasion. There was no talk yet of picnics, cards, and breakfast in bed for dad. But at least the idea of Father's Day was becoming less comical. Those attending the service were encouraged to wear a red flower to honour fathers.
Next Lord's Day, June 8th is observed as Fathers' day. Pastor J. E. Allan, of the Church of Christ, has arranged a special evening service in honour of the day. The chapel will be decorated with red flowers and those attending the service are requested to wear a red flower in honour of father. Mr Allan announces his subject as "A Fathers' Power."
Even in 1920 the debate continued. It seems popular opinion was divided. The general consensus was that dad had enough days throughout the year that were his own, although this submission to the Guyra Argus in July 1920 suggested children might appreciate seeing their father if he had reason to stay home for a change.
Why Not a "Father's Day ?"
Someone has suggested the institution of a 'Father's Day.' There are (says a contributor to an exchange) people who affirm that 'father' already has too many official days in his calendar. The conventional one birthday in each year does not always satisfy his ambition to pose in the limelight, he is apt to declare a 'birthday' in his own honor at any old time the fancy strikes him. The mothers, on the other hand, do not seem to have acquired the birthday habit to the same degree. One every four or five years is about all they care to celebrate. Perhaps, that is why there are so many bald-headed men in the world and so many women who manage to maintain an air of ever-lasting youth. But when you come to think of it, 'father' does not get a very big share of the glory. Great men often attribute their greatness to the influence of 'mother' —rarely of 'father.' Poets sing her praises and her virtues in immortalised song; it is usually his depravity and his general unworthiness that is advertised. Compare, for instance, ' Dreaming of Home and Mother' with ' Father, Dear Father, Come Home with Me Now,' and you have a very good illustration of the relative values attached to 'mother' and ' the old man.' Yes, I really think we ought to have a 'Father's Day.' It might induce him to stay at home once a year, and give his children a chance of becoming acquainted with him.
The History of Father's Day Gift Giving in Australia
It took the work of Ms Janet Heyden, who was also the driving force behind Mother’s Day in Australia, for dads in Australia to have their chance at being showered with small gifts as a token of affection from wives and children. Beginning in 1925, Ms Heyden organised the donation, collection, and delivery of small gifts to elderly men alone in hospital or retirement homes to begin our tradition of giving gifts on Father's Day. Interestingly, many of these traditional presents are still given as Father's Day gifts today.
The second Sunday in June has been set aside as Fathers' Day at Lidcombe Asylum, to bring cheer into the lives of the old men. Mrs. J. Heyden appeals for donations of pipes, tobacco, cigarettes, woollen mufflers, mittens, balaclava caps, bed socks, games, cakes, and sweets. Gifts may be left at the Feminist Club, 77 King Street, or 5 Norton Street, Leichhardt.
Mrs. J. Heyden, of Leichhardt, has arranged that the second Sunday in June is to be Father's Day at the Liverpool Asylum. Gifts of mufflers, mittens, handkerchiefs, pipes, tobacco, safety matches, scented soap, sweets, etc., would be greatly appreciated, and may be left at the Feminist Club, 77 King Street, or "Florist," 5 Norton St., Leichhardt.
While the grassroots push to recognise Father's Day had begun in Sydney, it appears not everyone was aware of the occasion. Mother's Day was fast gaining popularity, while these historical snippets on Father's Day in Australia shows it wasn't embraced as eagerly. Women continued to advocate for the day with suggestions for possible flowers to represent Father's Day and the date that Australia should designate for the day. A woman sent this letter to the Adelaide News in 1929:
"Mother's Request," Richmond:—In my home on Mother's Day I am kissed by each member of the family and given a white flower and a small present.
All who call do so come to tea and the table is decorated with white flowers. A white iced cake with the word "Mother" on it. and other delicacies are provided. I prize all that is done for me, but the affection of my family comes first. In return I give small gifts. It is a happy occasion.
I have wondered why a special day is not set apart in honor of fathers. Father is head of his house. Would not the first Sunday in May be suitable for such a celebration? A red flower, meaning "love," or a blue flower for constancy could be worn. I sounded a few fathers and found that they favored blue. I am sure that the holding of a Father's Day would stir up greater affection among families and father would feel that he was as well loved as mother.
This sketch appeared in the classified ads of the Lismore’s Northern Star in September 1929 suggesting a September date for Father's Day was on the cards for Australia, and that dad might expect more than just a flower for his buttonhole.
In 1936, the Bathurst National Advocate seemed rather unenthused about Father’s Day according to this old newspaper article. While it was far from the third annual date for Father's Day in Australia, this article shows that the day was not yet established enough in Australia to be widely recognised.
The third annual commemoration of Father's Day in Australia, was observed, yesterday, and many tokens of appreciation were handed to fathers by their offsprings. Pipes, tobacco pouches, handkerchiefs, cigars, socks, and a rare golf stick were amongst the presents. However, fathers have long since abandoned any pretence to rousing so much enthusiasm as mothers and they are little worried if the day, which is decreed as theirs, is honored more in the breach than the observance.
In the same year, an article in the Newcastle Sun in September 1936 proclaims Father’s Day to be a new event for the calendar.
A new day for the Calendar is "Father's Day," September 6. Mothers' Day has become very popular, and maybe "Father's Day" will. The colored flower for father is red. A special "Father's Day" meeting for Newcastle has been arranged, and will be held Sunday, September 6, in the Newcastle Baptist Tabernacle at 4.30 p.m. The special speaker will be the well-known "broadcast" preacher, Pastor Weller, of Sydney, who will speak on THE FOUR-SQUARE MAN... The meeting will be open to men of all denominations, and all fathers are requested to invite their sons. The Tabernacle is not far from the Newcastle Town Hall.
1936 featured a range of regional newspaper articles encouraging families throughout Australia to remember their dad on Father's Day. South Australia's Glenelg Guardian shared this reminder in August. The same newspaper edition also had an ad inviting readers to inspect Ryan's magnificent spring display of new stock.
Sunday, September 6th, being "Father's Day," will undoubtedly soon become a "National Day." "Mother's Day" is now so keenly observed each year that it will ever remain a "National Day." How appreciative mothers show themselves when a little present is handed to them on Mother's Day, and what a pleasure in giving. You will find "Dear old Dad" will appreciate some little gift on September 6th, also.
See Ryan's windows for some suggestions for inexpensive gifts for Father's Day. Remember September 6th.
The post-war years saw varying opinions about the importance of Father's Day. The Mercury in Hobart printed this woman's perspective on Father's Day in 1945. Other articles around the same period complained that the event was merely an opportunity for stores to make a profit.
TOMORROW is Fathers' Day, the one day in the year on which we pay official tribute - to the universal provider -or do we pay it throughout the year?
It seems to me that father gets a somewhat better "spin" during the year than mother. His chair is ready, and his slippers are beside the fire. It is his favourite dish which gets cooked for dinner.
But then again it is father who mows the lawn, mends the fence, and incidentally pays the bills.
So to father, we pay tribute. He has carried on wonderfully well throughout the war years, and there will be a very special tribute for the fathers who are spending this day of celebration at home after years of service overseas.
It appears that by 1958 Australia had finally officially recognised the date. This article was printed in several newspapers around the country including Bourke's Western Herald:
Father's Day — Founded by a Mother
The founder of Father's Day is a mother. She is Mrs. John Bruce Dodd, of Spokane, Washington. The idea for Father's Day came to her one morning in 1909, as she was washing dishes while her son, John Bruce Dodd, Jnr., gurgled happily beside her in a high chair.
It was her way of honouring her father, who raised her and five motherless brothers. This was a natural expression of love, devotion, and gratitude of this daughter toward her Dad, and as such, touched the life of families throughout the English-speaking world.
According to Mrs. Dodd, Father's Day would be the way to fulfil the need of calling attention to father's place in the home, training the children, the safeguarding of the marriage tie, the protection of womanhood and childhood.
In Australia, Father's Day began in 1935, and though not officially recognised, it grew in importance over the years, through the individual efforts of many.
Added significance to Father's Day, as a dramatic salute to Dad, has come about through the formation of the Father's Day Council of Australia, now active in N.S.W., Victoria, Queensland, and South Australia.
The first Sunday in September (Sept. 7, 1958) has now officially been designated as Father's Day throughout the Commonwealth.
In 1964, Father's Day was well established in Australia including the tradition of giving gifts. A lengthy article in Fairfield's The Biz newspaper titled FATHER'S DAY—1964 A DAY TO REMEMBER spoke of the Father's Day Council of Australia saying one of its "aims is to reinstate Father as 'head of the house' while also suggesting dad deserved a little pampering.
"While the function of the council is not to promote Father's Day as a great orgy of present giving, it does seem a pity to let the day go by without some token of the family's regard for the man of the house. The gifts don't need to be expensive, unless you wish them to be. In fact, the nicest 'present' of all would probably be to absolve father from all chores for the day — no gardening, no repair jobs (let the taps drip for once) and no washing up! For the many who will want to give a present worthy of the day, here are a few suggestions . .
Men's wear (particularly sox, shirts, handkerchiefs, jewellery and accessories, neckwear, hats and caps). Tobacco, tools and hardware, books and periodicals, electric shavers, sports goods, luggage, records and lawn mowers.
Yet again, choose the type he can charge overnight ready for use first thing in the morning — bed, of course, on Father's Day! Perhaps Dad goes to business. In that case wouldn't he appreciate a fine leather 'Carry-all' or briefcase in which to put his business papers and 'homework'. No more paper bags or parcels for Dad, now everything can go into his briefcase. Maybe Father is the sporting type. Wouldn't' it be a marvellous surprise for him to be presented with a lovely set of golf sticks and buggy that he would be proud to have on any golf course. But whatever you buy, remember the real meaning behind Father's Day, the purpose which makes it a truly family day and one to be treasured as such."
A similar article the following year also looked at what Father's Day means to the family.
The Modern Father's Day in Australia
It may have taken several decades, but Dads around Australia can be grateful that they finally get to put their feet up and enjoy an appropriately pampering Father's Day. The true joy of Father's Day is in spending the day with family, receiving a handmade card, and having the perfect excuse to do as little as possible. Games of cricket, a day at the beach, tinkering in the shed, a camping trip and a day of fishing are all popular ways to spend Father's Day in Australia.
Father’s Day Traditions In Australia
Father’s Day traditions in Australia look a little different to those around the world. Being the first Sunday of spring, Father’s Day regularly involves outdoor activities, BBQs, and time spent with Dad. Father’s Day is not a public holiday in Australia, however most dads will gladly take the day off. In the lead up to the day, Father’s Day craft activities are popular. At school, children are encouraged to make handmade gifts and Father's Day cards for their dads. Many schools hold Father’s Day gift stalls where children can purchase small gifts for parents and carers.
As one of the major retail holidays, Father’s Day is also a popular time for gifting. Retail companies usually offer Father's Day gift discounts in the lead up, which conventionally include socks, suits, ties, men's pamper products, books and tech gadgets. Families celebrate together with gifts and meals, just like on Mother’s Day, and Father's Day cards are an essential.